Proud to be an Amer – ur, Californian

At 5:01pm on June 16, 2008, the first legal gay marriage in California took place in the San Francisco city hall between Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin, lovers and partners of 56 years. Outside, at exactly 5:01pm:

5:01pm, June 16, 2008

Shortly thereafter, a man ran outside, yelling ‘They’re married! They’re married!’, to which the several thousand people waiting about erupted in cheers and applause.

are they married?

they're married!

Kinda tragic, but apparently all the excitement was too much for one guy, who collapsed right in front of the steps of city hall. They did CPR on him for several minutes before rolling him away, still trying to bring him back.

sf gay marriage death

The crowd was mostly just people down out of work for the day, stopping by to witness history in the making. God I love this city.

sf gay marriage crowd

So for those of us who tend to believe this world’s too big for one person to make a difference…

Dear Gavin,

I don’t know what pushed you, on that calm and dreary Thursday morning four short years ago, to invite Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin into your office for a small and quiet marriage. Some say you did it for political gain. Some say you did it because you’re still in the closet. And some say you did it because – imagine this – you did it because you care.

Guess what… the ‘why’, well, the ‘why’ just doesn’t matter here. It’s the result that matters. You have, through personal choice, thought and action, first positioned yourself to be able to work significant change in this world, and then had the balls to follow through. Gavin, you stood on the shoulders of decades of work by thousands to get this done. But the indisputable fact is that, because of you, millions of gay Californians wake up tomorrow no longer pushed to the side, no longer denied an undeniably human portion of life. May our children grow up in a world where gay hate is learned in the history books, and gay marriage is learned through the neighborhood, at the playground, in the community.

Gavin, I didn’t vote for you in 2004. Nor in 2008. And I probably won’t vote for you in 2010. But I have to say – thank you Gavin. Where others would only give words, you gave action. And today, today your actions have forever changed the lives of millions.

Yours,

Michael J.

dear Gavin,

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Olympic Torch Relay 2008: San Francisco

Olympic Torch, Tibet Flag

Olympic Torch running

Olympic Torch full security

running with the Olympic Torch

passing the Olympic Flame

Olympic Torch runners

more Olympic Torch runners

This dude yelled “Free Tibet!” a few times.

Olympic Torch runner, yelled 'Free Tibet'

Olympic Torch runner in wheelchair

here comes the Olympic Torch convoy

Olympic Torch convoy approaching

Olympic Torch convoy first layer of cops

passing the Olympic Flame, again

This dude got himself arrested, I didn’t see what did (or did not) happen.

Olympic Torch Protester Arrested

These two cops appeared to be in charge of the 100’s (1000’s?) of cops on the ground:

Head Honcho Olympic Torch security

What. A. Day. The only violence I saw was a cop shoving someone out of the street. Definitely less violent than the last time the SFPD had battalions of officers running around in riot gear.

Least we forget:

Tiananmen Square, 1989

China still has a long way to go.

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